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Mar 5, 2005 1:44:59 GMT
Post by Al Truest on Mar 5, 2005 1:44:59 GMT
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RA
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Mar 8, 2005 7:57:25 GMT
Post by RA on Mar 8, 2005 7:57:25 GMT
Here's one (and I'll keep this rant to the convenience stores and supermarkets). Moralistic consumerarism! Phew, that's a biggie for this time of the morning. You see, sometimes I forget to pack a lunch for work, so I poodle on down to Tesco or Safeway for a yummy sandwich and, the selection, ALL brown bread except EGG which they feel suitable for white bread eaters!! You see the powers that be seem to think that white bread is not good for us and not what we SHOULD want. Well, it P**ses me off! They are more than happy to provide me with gin and cigarettes (should I want some) before I've even got past the entrance lobby, but a decent sandwhich NO NEVER........arghhh RA Rant over
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Mar 25, 2005 4:52:40 GMT
Post by saloldgal on Mar 25, 2005 4:52:40 GMT
My longtime rant is people/businesses that don't seem to realize that married women are now allowed to make contracts, own property, drive and do all kinds of other things like that.
The first time I ran into this was when I applied for the mortgage to build our first house shortly after my husband and I married. At the time, I had been working in a well-paying job for about 6 years and earned significantly more than my husband, who was slightly younger and still "finding himself" career-wise. Additionally, since I was a financial analyst, I handled all our financial dealings as a matter of course. Because I handled our finances, I did all the research and paperwork and dealt with all the mortgage lenders myself - my husband was not involved at all. But in spite of my husband's lack of involvement or creditworthiness (relative to mine at that time), when I finally selected a lender and went down to apply for a loan, a mysterious thing happened. Sometime after I handed them the application but before the paperwork was printed for signatures, I went from being the "borrower" to being the co-borrower", and my husband went from being the "co-borrower" to being the "borrower". Obviously, either the loan officer or his computer software decided that any married woman applying for a loan was just acting as her husband's agent, carrying out his instructions. Throughout the rest of the process, all the lender's phone calls and mailings regarding the loan went to him, he passed them along to me, and I handled whatever the issue was and responded to the lender... if through clenched teeth. The only way that lender could have insulted me more would have been by patting me on the head or slapping my butt or something. But I never spoke up about it. I was too meek back then.
That was about 13 years ago, and I have stopped counting how many times the same kind of thing has happened since then. The most recent time was a few months ago when I started taking my cat to a new veterinarian. On the intake form, I entered my info in the "owner" part and my husband's info in the "spouse" part, but guess who was put on record as the "owner" of my cat? I'll give you a hint: When I called the vet's office a few days later to get some test results, the records clerk asked "Are you married?"... "OK, what is your husband's name?" This time I told them what was on my mind and they changed the record to show that I am my cat's owner. So now, when I get mail from the vet, it is addressed to "Mrs. and Mr. Sally Isa Whiner" (not my real name - honest). I am left wondering what they do when a pet owner just plain isn't married.
Maybe this stuff doesn't bother some women, but it bugs the sh*t out of me. Even if businesses don't want to jump to conclusions about how liberated their married female customers are, how hard would it be to at least ask how they would like records made out?
Wow. I sure do feel better now...
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Mar 25, 2005 5:25:02 GMT
Post by Al Truest on Mar 25, 2005 5:25:02 GMT
Naturally, I cannot fully appreciate this insulting phenomenon first hand, but I have witnessed it. Also, I did get an ugly glimpse of this lunacy when my wife (now ex) and I were shopping for a new car for her. When we had made the deal, I had told the salesman that we were getting the color she wanted. I had preffered another color and more options, but since I wasn't going to be driving it, it was of course her choice. This guy proceeds to take my aside and whisper ''who wears the pants in your family anyway?'' I proceeded to show him by not buying from him. We found the same deal and color elsewhere.
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tabatha
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"On Saturday evening, oh well Eddie was so pretty. But now his boy is leaving.
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Apr 29, 2005 15:11:04 GMT
Post by tabatha on Apr 29, 2005 15:11:04 GMT
Indy Rock Bands!
This started off today, I was watching T.V. in the morning, and an add came on. It was for "The Future Heads" who as I am sure we all know have covered the Hounds of Love, which I personally think as one of the most mesmerising songs Kate has produced. I Sadly didn't notice Kate’s name on the add at all, and as an Indy Rock band, why can't they be individual enough to write their own songs instead of taking someone else’s and barely crediting them! Now every time I sing The Hounds of Love, I end up doing their version, which doesn't have the flare of Kate’s original, and best rendition, and lacks emotion and individuality she put into he songs.
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Apr 29, 2005 18:28:48 GMT
Post by matanchik on Apr 29, 2005 18:28:48 GMT
i really like the futureheads cover, it's the only good kate cover from those i heard
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May 4, 2005 22:09:14 GMT
Post by Al Truest on May 4, 2005 22:09:14 GMT
New Rant - Fast Food 'add-on sales pitches' This morning I ordered a 'low-carb breakfast bowl' and a small diet coke at a drive-thru. I was promptly asked if I wanted to make it a 'combo' Being health conscious to some degree, I politely turned down the suggestion. It is not like I did not know that they offered potatoes. Next I was asked ''Would you like to substitute a hand-dipped milk-shake or malt for your beverage'' Without a word I drove away. I know the clerk was only doing what they were trained to do. But why would I want a milk-shake or malt at eight a.m.? Moreover, why would I want all those carbs, with a low-carb meal? I didn't have the time or inclination to explain all this. If I had, I'd have been paranoid about receiving sabbotaged food.
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May 5, 2005 0:17:26 GMT
Post by Adey on May 5, 2005 0:17:26 GMT
Now that's truly illogical.. It seems that the jig is up for fast food, or at least the pretence that it is in anyway less than good for you (though I will of course continue to eat it on occasions). But even knowing that consumers are now more aware of what they're putting in their mouths and are starting to at least make informed choices, it seems that the food combines are apparently quick to demonstrate their apparent 'lip service only' attitude to healthy eating by mixing the message with an inappropriate campaign strategy. I hope that you didn't go hungry all morning..
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May 5, 2005 2:37:08 GMT
Post by Al Truest on May 5, 2005 2:37:08 GMT
Now that's truly illogical.. It seems that the jig is up for fast food, or at least the pretense that it is in anyway less than good for you (though I will of course continue to eat it on occasions). But even knowing that consumers are now more aware of what they're putting in their mouths and are starting to at least make informed choices, it seems that the food combines are apparently quick to demonstrate their apparent 'lip service only' attitude to healthy eating by mixing the message with an inappropriate campaign strategy. What can they say? They must depend on bait and switch tactics and rely on our weaknesses. I did indeed skip breakfast - save a Sobe sugar-free "Adreneline-Rush" ....For lunch I had a ''Sub in a tub'' 'More marketing stategy at play here. It is pitched as a ''submarine sandwich without the bread'' I ordered one and, upon receiing my tray, informed them that a submarine sandwich with out the bread is a SALAD!
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May 5, 2005 12:24:34 GMT
Post by Adey on May 5, 2005 12:24:34 GMT
Man, you're a tough customer..
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May 5, 2005 17:28:58 GMT
Post by Xanadu on May 5, 2005 17:28:58 GMT
My little rant... WHY is it impossible to get counselling? Every place I've tried to go to either has a 3 MONTH waiting list, doesn't deal with my issues, doesn't deal with under 18's (i'm 17) or charges ridiculous amounts of money. Apparently I'd have to wait that long even with GP referral. I thought it would be easy but then nothing is really I got a bit annoyed with one of them...I don't think they'll be calling me back...it went something like 'If I'd broken my f***ing leg would you make me wait three f***ing months?" oops. Then you'll probably wait and they'll ask you what you think your problem is. Thanks a heap. Just don't let them get you on the meds and smooth out your edges. Some edges are good and make you as original as you are.
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May 5, 2005 17:33:40 GMT
Post by Xanadu on May 5, 2005 17:33:40 GMT
New Rant - Fast Food 'add-on sales pitches' This morning I ordered a 'low-carb breakfast bowl' and a small diet coke at a drive-thru. I was promptly asked if I wanted to make it a 'combo' Being health conscious to some degree, I politely turned down the suggestion. It is not like I did not know that they offered potatoes. Next I was asked ''Would you like to substitute a hand-dipped milk-shake or malt for your beverage'' Without a word I drove away. I know the clerk was only doing what they were trained to do. But why would I want a milk-shake or malt at eight a.m.? Moreover, why would I want all those carbs, with a low-carb meal? I didn't have the time or inclination to explain all this. If I had, I'd have been paranoid about receiving sabbotaged food. My rant would have to be about the "low Carb" diet rage entirely. I don't buy any of the these diets fads for a moment. Eat whatever you want... just not so dam*n much of it! Hey and if you want to avoid it, just don't eat fast food. Didn't anyone tell you that stuff not good for you anyway?
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May 5, 2005 21:37:19 GMT
Post by Al Truest on May 5, 2005 21:37:19 GMT
My rant would have to be about the "low Carb" diet rage entirely. I don't buy any of the these diets fads for a moment. Eat whatever you want... just not so dam*n much of it! I know what you mean, but I am diabetic, so carbs equal sugar. I must adhere to a low-carb diet or die. I control my portions. Additionally, by keeping my weight down and exercizing, I don't need insulin shots. There is no way for me to avoid it altogether. However, there is degree to consider here. Here are choices that can make some difference when you must eat from the drive-thru. * Don't eat the fried food * Have a Salad * Order juice or diet soda or water * Don't supersize * Milkshakes and pastries are best postponed for when they actually are well prepared.
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May 5, 2005 21:46:03 GMT
Post by Xanadu on May 5, 2005 21:46:03 GMT
I know what you mean, but I am diabetic, so carbs equal sugar. I must adhere to a low-carb diet or die. I control my portions. Additionally, by keeping my weight down and exercizing, I don't need insulin shots. Sorry, Al. I thought you meant the diet issue. I certainly agree with you if it's a lifestyle situation. Actually, I commend you on how well you seem to adhere to your plans and don't need to use medication. Not many would be able to do such a thing. There is no way for me to avoid it altogether. However, there is degree to consider here. Here are choices that can make some difference when you must eat from the drive-thru. * Don't eat the fried food * Have a Salad * Order juice or diet soda or water * Don't supersize * Milkshakes and pastries are best postponed for when they actually are well prepared. Exactly. And, there are restaurants that are better than others.
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May 5, 2005 22:58:06 GMT
Post by Al Truest on May 5, 2005 22:58:06 GMT
Man, you're a tough customer.. Actually I am always polite and an excellent tipper. In the case of the SALAD comment - it was entirely with tongue firmly in cheek. ;D New Rant - Computer products for sale on-line by companies that create problems just to sell you a solution. - Pops ups to block spyware for example. I wouldn't need it if you'd quit sending it! I only say this 'cos I had to run a system recovery (due to my own lack of computer skills i.e. trying to reset my Windows refresh rates and screwing up my audio/video) In so doing, some spyware creeped in before my firewall and other features were installed. To me these ads and products should be illegal. It's like extortion. If you owned a car wash and had people slinging mud at my vehicle, why would I PAY you to wash it. Anybody with me here?
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