The chemistry of attraction

[Xanadu]

Al said:

Who said you were younger? Uh, oh.....J/K ;D

Very nice, Al... very nice.

[Al Truest]

Sorry , I should know better than to tempt your good nature,

[Xanadu]

Adey said:

What can I say Sven, the lower half's the better half

Nah, just enjoyed Xan's recollection on this thread - she said " picture the scene " - so I did...

Or a one track mind. ;D Nice pic Adey. Anyway... I think I'm the only one revealing anything here. Anyone else care to be the target for a while?

[Al Truest]

Xanadu said:

Or a one track mind. ;D Nice pic Adey. Anyway... I think I'm the only one revealing anything here. Anyone else care to be the target for a while?

I think I've shown my ass quite often here.

[Adey]

Sven, I've just re-read your original premise to this thread and I'm not sure I fully answered your question.

The attraction to anyone that I've ever had an interest in has come initially through the visual, with just one exception. Afterwards, body warmth is what does it for me, but thats non specific to any individual.

The exception was a girl I fell deeply in lust with after hearing her laugh on the telephone. We never met.

When you're intimate with someone - I can't seperate the individual triggers. Odour/Taste/Hearing etc all combine in the moment.

[Sven Golly]

Adey said:

Sven, I've just re-read your original premise to this thread and I'm not sure I fully answered your question.

The attraction to anyone that I've ever had an interest in has come initially through the visual, with just one exception. Afterwards, body warmth is what does it for me, but thats non specific to any individual.

But, have you ever thought about why you find certain traits attractive? The visual cues tend to be focused on subliminal indicators. Health and utility for sure have been established as attractive qualities. But what about associative traits. You may find red-hair and pale skin a turn-on because of a pleasant past experience. The brain files these stimuli away and then recalls them involuntarily. You may stammer and drool over a stranger for no good reason other than the spellbinding prospect of sex brought on by mutually perceived attraction.

The exception was a girl I fell deeply in lust with after hearing her laugh on the telephone. We never met.

Probably an association with a former voice-type that you found alluring.

When you're intimate with someone - I can't seperate the individual triggers. Odour/Taste/Hearing etc all combine in the moment.

I would say that would be because many of these responses are subliminal or involuntary. The more these stimuli combine to fit your criteria, the more you are attracted to that person. The formula will differ with the individual. Agree?

[Al Truest]

It can be more complex than finding someone's voice "alluring" People do pick up vibes even over the phone. But some people are just slutty (guys included
making it a harder read.

[Sven Golly]

But what is the most likely stimuli to make the hair on your neck stand up? Perfume - first eye contact - the voice saying "I want you" - The taste of strawberries and champagne on the lips. Choose the most important of these and then explain why. Is any one of them enough on their own merit to capture your attention?

[Al Truest]

Unless she smells offensive; mutually seductive eye contact gets me everythime.

[Lori]

I may be able to comment on this topic soon

[Sven Golly]

Lori said:

I may be able to comment on this topic soon

Lori's in L U V............

[Sven Golly]

So that's where you've been.

[Lori]

Hey I ain't saying nothing

[Al Truest]

But there was chemistry involved, right?

[Adey]

Make him or her post for us Lori, we'll give 'em the once over, let you know what we think. Hey, just think of the number of chaperones you've got here!

Should have stayed silent Lori, you gonna get soooo much stick!

All the luck..